So you've settled into the comfort zone of your relationship and yet somehow you mixed up "caring" versus "overbearing" and now you're 2 seconds from Ike whooping on your ass Tina!
Being in a relationship doesn't qualify you ass an asset with lease terms and ownership! You are under obligation to transform into his Dream Chick as the terms of this transaction were "As-Is"...In case you are clueless, I have outlined a heads up to distinguish between a controlling ass Man and an overly concerned.
He has a lo jack on you. He's tracking you through GPS, social networking, and monitoring your text messages. He may even be double checking your accounts by verifying with friends. Have ye Faith! A concerned man may simply want to know where you're going.
He's your personal stylist featuring What Not to Wear! Ok pops!! Telling you you look sexy in a 'fit is one thing but cockblocking your minis is quite another...Get a doll homey...
Blocking Girls Nite Out...He only wants you to have a good time with him and can't stand to be left out of your fun shindigs. Healthy time apart is a remedy for all unions.
Talking to You Out of Pocket. He's macho and condescending and needs that ego checked at the door. A real man realizes you are his equal!
He's always popping up on you. Not too be confused with a pleasant surprise. This dude has no flowers or gifts just Ta-da!! Hell to the no you need to make an appointment Sir!
He constantly accuses you of cheating and lying. He's super insecure and maybe has been unlucky in the past...possibly even up to know good so he's leery of Karma.
He creates distance between you and the Fam. He convinces you that they don't like him and they don't want to see you happy. How can he control you when there's an Army behind you?
A man must deal with his own issues, but don't you dare let him disengage your power if he refuses to!!!
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