Is it true that you're bio clock is racing and you've finally paired up with a potential donor who truly loves you and has what it takes to plant a seed in your womb? Even the best of Men transcend different stages in life and move at different speeds so let's discuss taking the leap of procreation with the right one.
1|He isn't ok with Baby Daddy status. Not to say that every path is for certain and etched in stone, however, this father will go to great lengths to ensure a family is in place and he wants a wife or life partner.
2| He's not blinded by his career and successes. He has passed the phase where focuses are self-centered and he is ready to share those successes with a family of his own. It is a mistake for a woman to bestow a child upon a man who is not in the right position creating all kinds of tension.
3| He actually reveals during courtship that he likes and wants kids...This is a necessary convo for all couples. Kids aren't for everyone after all!
4| His lifestyle is suitable for babies. Are you co-habitating in a child friendly environment? Do you spend quality time together and have you been engaged with one another's families? Does he balance professional and personal commitments well? Does he engage in risky behaviors or is he stable basically?
5| Does he have baggage from prior relationships? You know like unresolved issues with baby mommas or court drama with a pending divorce settlement? May not be the right time if so...
If he proves to be stable, responsible, generous, and committed and his male bio clock is racing yours, by all means go for it!!!
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