This applies to many areas of your life. It involves bringing a "fresh" approach to your sense of style, mental well-being, romantic life and, of course, bedroom festivities! You don't have to be Halle or Patrick Dempsey (excuse my subjectivism in Hotness) to keep the fire and desire in your relationship. We are all easily guilty of entering into long-term relationships and getting comfortable. You know...the point where you stop shaving and barge into the bathroom on each other and unleash the true YOU that was hidden during courtship. Ha!
Being yourself is definitely permitted and welcomed...but doing a 180 from the person you were on date #1 is a No-No!! So you thought because you exchanged vows and you're picking out curtains together and shit..you're in the Safe Zone? Clutch your pearls and safeguard your union by heeding to the following:
•Stay Groomed. Keep up with shaving, showering and upkeep of personal hygiene.
•Surprise with Style. Continue to lavish yourself with clothing, lingerie, and mani/pedi's. You can BE his fantasy or allow someone else to become it ;-)
•Stay Edumacated. Men love an educated & knowledgeable woman who has something worth talking about
•Stay Innovative with Entertainment. This doesn't mean 24-7 wowing. It means making plans and being open to trying new things such as going to plays, vacations, date nights, strip clubs, picnics, skinny dipping.
•Keep the love flowing. Easier said than done...all couples fight and when you dwell together you may desire to choke each other at times. Men love to feel adored and spoiled with kisses, caresses, verbal ego strokes, hugs, and undying lust in the eyes. He wants to feel loved + needed constantly not occasionally.
•Breaks from your significant other are much needed! Extended absences (e.g. Always @ the club)..not so much.
Best of luck in keeping your bed warm!
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